Over the decades of my adult life, I’ve been practicing a thing I did not even know that I practice, that I now call “Slow Tourism”. Slow tourism is a different approach to travel that detracts from the traditional short-duration, high energy and expense style of exploring our world and…

One thing i’ve noticed over the years is that people will often tell me what my state is, like it were fact, as if i had no sensory organs. They almost never ask me how it is, but instead say “i can see you are X”, without any evidence or…

We have been sold a faulty bill of goods. There is no pot of gold at the end of the rainbow, there is little more than pain and sorrow and we have been divided by our own arrogance and selfishness. …

I can without a doubt tell you that we will see more of this sort of gun related violence and mass murder we have been seeing of late and not for the obvious reasons. Over the past 30 years human culture has undergone an emergent change from the top down…

The utopian ideal of ethical non-monogamy has started to devour itself in the name of narcissistic and authoritarian identity politics. Not that it the concept of ‘poly’ wasn't already driving itself to an early grave amid the other proto utopian ideals that when implemented by humans always gives way to…

Many do not know about polyamory, most that do only do so through sensationalist media often portraying the practitioners in negative light. Truth be told it there is much more to it than that and for those curious, I suggest the densely packed library of resources over at More Than…

Recently one of the wonderful women in my life and I were talking about her dating and sexual experiences with men. After hearing the way things are for the eleventy-th time from women I love and care about, I am saddened that I even have the compulsion to put fist…